I don't know what to tell you to do. Moved in with me after and is still living with me. In unambiguous situations like those, you might just want to kick the guy to the curb. He and his high school girlfriend had been friends long before they were a couple and were still friends long after it. He was staying at my house that night and did not come home until around 4am.
Either way, he is the one who ultimately has control over this. They both cheated on each other and he still tells her she can come home whenever she wants! My heart sank in my chest and it was hard to keep my composure. I can tell you that when I was on the receiving end of this sort of thing, I was not graceful about it. I give you all who read this my love and prayers but I hope you find peace in your hearts. I just dont get it why is he still communicates with hix ex secretly.
Right after my boyfriend and his ex broke up we started dating, he still liked her and i was pretty much a rebound, so we broke it off and took some time away from eachother. If you both finished, would you like to remain frinds with him, or would you prefer it if he completely cut you off? What sorts of things could you be doing to build yourself up and become stronger, happier, and healthier? Then about a year ago he said he still wants to talk to them. She was there for him for many years, so I feel sometimes like I'm comparing myself to her. Your boyfriend is torn being pleasing the mother of his children he probably has little choice and his love for you. I'm kind of in the same kind of situation only I don't have any children of my own. He had a tendency to remain friends with people who have stabbed him in the back. If his ex really is just a friend, your boyfriend should have no problem introducing you.
Now that I think about it, had plenty of opportunities to tell me he was dating someone. Sure, maybe he was just afraid that you would be mad or something, but that still begs the question of why he would rather avoid your anger than be honest with you. My only advice is to trust him with all your heart. Does he say he values her as a friend or does he like her for the person she is? But whenever im not with him, i will keep thinking. Sounds like they are still caught up, and you should disentangle. Unless it's a group shot of him and all of his friends, with his ex present, having pictures of a dead romance out and about is kind of like stuffing and displaying a dead pet.
He said that they were only engaged for a couple of months about a year and a half ago and stayed together for more of a companionship they were both in difficult times in their lives. My boyfriend is best friends with his ex. Hi everyone, thank you so much for your replies. She never did get the picture. He had a horrible relationship with his ex of 13+ years and I pushed him to try to make it better because of his kids with her.
What if the best tip on how to cope with jealousy when your boyfriend sees is ex is to simply stop those thoughts when they arise? Even though you love him, think if you would like to share your life with someone who has his own priorities which might not include you first place. Ask me to forgive him. I think it is a good thing for exes to wish each other well, keep in touch over major life events, but I have to be honest, a self-respecting woman wants only that. Because of this, I wanted to see if he was still lying to me. If you truly love us and want us to feel secure and we are the 'one' then why can you not let the past go inorder to grow your future??? You have to trust that he will be honest with you. I don't know why I feel so threatened by this friendship that he has with her.
If you do meet his ex, pay attention to how she or he acts. Never heard from him again, thankfully. At the end of the day, you make the final choice but at least you can decide using other options and what to do with it. I wish I could turn back time. They texted every day which kind of got on my nerves. This has been goin on for a while. But i wanna know if he still wants to be with his ex.
One in particular had me as part of her wedding party, insisted that I go out with her kids, and went so far to ask me to be her childrens' godfather which I declined. They also have credit card together, and she's still gets her mail at his house. He has yet to disclose this to me personally. He has gotten caught lieing to me about stupid little things, but a lie is a lie to me no matter how small. You sound exactly like me!! Your boyfriend's friendships with his exes must also include you in the picture. I was at a university out of town that time and he used to call and we would stay on the phone for hours. I'm always silent on the phone and everything.
The pictures where too much. Well after that things got very uncomfortable between me and him because I found out that she was still texting him and he was not stopping it knowing that she still had feelings for him and wanted to rekindle the relationship. My opinion is that the best solution, is to have faith in the guy and his ability to work it out and take appropriate action. But I think that their closeness had a lot to do with what turned me into a bit of a lunatic. Does your boyfriend have all her gifts placed neatly around the house? I still really care about what happens to her. Plan on what you're going to say.