The best thing you can do is to first completely relax him with a sensual full body oil massage… so he's completely relaxed and naked, with just a small towel over his intimate spots , then tell him to turn around and take stroke by stroke. He wants you to feel confident about what you like in bed. Plus, plenty of hilarious things happen during sex. If you initiated by pulling the back of her head toward yours last time, instead, grab her chin and pull it toward yours. Now that you're kissing, you can be a bit more assertive with your touches.
Someone who is polite but not afraid can encourage a guy to tell you what's working or not working, too. But remember, this works only if you get her interested in you first. Her excitement and curiosity would make her addicted to you. This should be a give and take. Most girls love this and find it a big turn on.
Handcuffs or some type of restraints. I go out in broad daylight asking a girl for sex. Feel out the situation to see what she wants. You should always be freshly showered and groomed before you hang out with your girl. These ideas will inspire her to feel not only romantic in the moment but also pleasant throughout the entire day, causing a ripple effect.
Whether it's thigh-highs or short skirts, she knows what you're into and genuinely wants to turn you on, so she's game to wear whatever works. So take it slow, watch her response, and make your move. If I had to choose one I'd pick Netflix, but I'm glad I. Don't do more than that or she'll be freaked out, not turned on. Your bed should be made with fresh sheets, so it's appealing as possible for your girlfriend. You may be ready for more, but you'll need to spend more time turning your girl on. I will admit, very few men actually look attractive doing this little dance of pleasure, which is why we women are the ones who are usually seen in this role.
Tell her how sexy she is and what an amazing time you had. If you do decide to have sex, then you can turn your girlfriend on in a variety of ways when you're doing it. If you want to turn on your girlfriend, you'll need to create an atmosphere that makes her want to hook up. Seriously--a lot of people underestimate the power of a few naughty words in the But in all honesty, some words are more effective than others, and it's important to know which words are really going to make her go crazy for you. Tell her all about your day, and listen to her too. You can pick her up, or meet her somewhere nearby. As you talk to her now and then, try to get to know more about her and the things she likes.
Even if she's been to your place before, you should still try to make her feel as comfortable as possible. Don't just kiss her for five minutes straight -- take a break every minute or two to gaze into her eyes and to make her want you even more. Comment When You Notice Things She Changes This is an incredibly, overly simple sweet thing to do for your girlfriend, and you can do it constantly: Notice when she changes something hair, makeup, new clothes , and compliment it. My gf and I did this once straight out of a shower: she fucking loved it and i almost think I loved it even more! You can also put on some soft music in the background to make things more romantic. To turn your girl on, you'll have to act sexy right from the beginning. He wants you to communicate. But do you find yourself getting tongue tied each time you have to do more than just breathe hard or grunt in bed while thrusting deeper? And if she's not ready for sex, then don't go there.
So if you notice that she looks really good one day, offer to take a picture of her. She loves hearing your voice first thing. But if you say something too perverse too soon, she may just want to duct-tape your mouth while having sex for the rest of your life. Play a few naughty texting games this time around, and initiate them casually. Once you've had sex, you never want to leave her bed ever again. Yes, you can use them to play by yourself, but you can also use them on him. Make sure your girlfriend has an orgasm too -- or at least try to give her one.
No matter what, just get something you know she will love. Randomly flip open a page and see if you and your lover can get into that position. Getting drunk, fucking, then ordering pizza and eating it in bed. Over time, both of you will get hornier, bolder and the fantasies too will start to get wilder. But hey, if the idea occurs to you that it might be hot to have him spin you around and fuck you from behind against your kitchen counter. Buy Her a Gift from Our List of Female Approved Gift Ideas A thoughtful gift especially for no particular reason is one of the best romantic things to do for your girlfriend.