Think about what would happen if you were to break up with her. Do you feel like you know enough about himself and his life? Take back your self esteem and end this situation where you've assumed the inferior role. A little about her: She is 35 years old. Do you have questions about inheritance, tipping, weddings, family feuds, friends or any tricky issues relating to manners and money? He leaves and doesn't even help out. While there are genuinely platonic arrangements out there, they are few and far between. If this is true but he will not talk seriously about your relationship, then he might be using you for his own gain. Money that she can support her family with.
On the other hand, I want a super rich girlfriend who owns a Lear Jet and wants to pay for everything. Am i wrong for thinking that she is being so selfish? In other words, if she found the money on the street but her father didn't pay, she would be less happy than if her father paid I asked her this, too - she didn't give a clear answer though. By now, she should have made that money talk back to her and doubled it. Luckily, it fell though because I would have felt somewhat dirty about it. While some people have valid reasons for not talking much about themselves, sometimes it can also mean that they are trying to hide something from you.
If that is the case for you, then think first about the way you feel in the relationship? Now, I don't know what to do. Money represents things to people, different things to different people. Or does he keep the finer details of his life a secret? The way I see it is her shop will do very well, it already is, and the wife is a determined and very hard working lady, with two teenage boys who are going to go into university in a year or so. She could have 6 other guys around the world, all paying for her apartment. I had a girl friend a while back, I can't remember the conversation we had to well, but it was something about her having friends who kept on complaining about not having money to go out. At some point money begins to have diminishing returns, so you might as well blow it. If he is not even willing to try, but expects you to do everything that he wants, then he is absolutely using you to satisfy his own selfish needs.
Your marriage will be what you and your wife make it. The truth is you do not know her and being player is very common here, especially on dating sites. Do you feel like you are always giving in to his needs but he never consider what you need? I remember the chick I hooked up with on my first visit to Chiang Mai in 2009, we met in the club she took me to her apartment we had sex and the next thing she tells me is she has a Norwegian boyfriend who sends her a few thousand baht every week to support her and her baby. She needs help and I'm her boyfriend so I should help her. If she was so concerned, a hairdo would be the last thing on her mind.
And the friend she borrowed from need to get the money back within the next few days. If she behaves like this all the time, then Im sorry to say, you have a big challenge on your hand. Touches my ear, my shoulder, my knee. While you might have to dig to figure this out, you will find that most of these signs are right there in plain sight. Nobody has warned me about him. And my marriage has never been better.
If I added up the days we have been together it would total to 1 month. But if signs are pointing to this bad reputation being real, then you need to protect yourself and your heart. I'm surprised that her Dad didn't pull you to the side and tell you to stop. I encourage you to contact a lawyer to help assess how realistic her threats are and to explore your options for taking legal action against her. Maybe she assumes - wrongly, obviously - that because you have money, you don't care about little bits.
She said she will post it online. And unless you guys have a joint checking, don't expect her to support you: that is unrealistic. They might be seeing something that you have been blind to. Knowing the European sister and respecting her as a good women is the only reason I try to show some patience while red flags are popping up all over my mind. Suddenly, the sister from Isaan starts telling me she has borrowed money from a friend and then lent it to another friend who can not repay. Do you often feel bad about yourself? While you may not exactly be scarred by it, you probably have a far more cautious approach to your finances as a result. In some ways she is more disciplined than I am.
I have a husband, I gave birth 3 weeks ago, my husband always ask me for money, saying darling am broke, I really need money, I send him and after every 2 weeks, he tells me am broke, I need money. After reading this article has shed some light on my relationship with my chap. So, this is another strong indication that she doesn't actually care about the money itself; she just does not want to hand me cash. He also wrote to Scott, the American in Bangkok, who wiped him clean off his windscreen in his reply. This is especially true if he does not work or if he does work but never offers to help out financially for things that are for the two of you.
She will most likely continue to call you and make threats. She gives you the same story three or more times for the month. Honestly, if I was her I would be thankful that they even pay something, but she is just angry because she does not get more. But now we are both going to school and she gets her tuition paid through grants. Weird and funny at the same time as I was 20 back then and she like 30 and the fact that she paid for all the bills food, cinema, taxi let me doubt again if she really had a baby that she had to spend money for or if it was just me who was the baby. Maybe he always runs late when meeting you or maybe he constantly makes up excuses to leave early when he is with you.
Ultimately, if he has a bad reputation, it is up to you to look into it. It could very well be that she equates receiving money with receiving recognition or love. It became clear she would need a lot more. At the same time, you will not know for sure until you have solid proof. Edited May 21, 2014 by NeverSure My Canadian British American Australian French Italian Spanish Norwegian Dutch Swedish Japanese Chinese Thai girlfriend wants me to pay for everything.